May Blog

Perseverance with Humility

Over the years, I’ve learned a lot about how I approach challenges and pursue my goals. I’ve often identified with the traits described in Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela Duckworth. She defines grit as a combination of passion and perseverance—the ability to stay committed to long-term goals. Her work emphasizes that effort counts twice as much as talent, and that a strong sense of purpose helps us stay consistent and connected to the meaning behind what we do.

At the same time, my own experience has shown me that perseverance alone isn’t always enough. I’ve had to learn, sometimes the hard way, when and where to direct that passion and effort. When my perseverance lacked humility or discernment, it often led to disappointment, strained relationships, or goals that remained out of reach.

Recognizing moments of stubbornness in myself has been an important part of that learning. It has helped me see more clearly when a situation, environment, or collaboration isn’t aligned with my values, interests, or energy. Creating space to pause and reflect has allowed me to make more intentional decisions and adjust my expectations with greater clarity.

That pause has also invited a more humble approach. When I step back, I’m better able to consider other perspectives. Passion and commitment can be powerful, but they can also narrow our view. Slowing down helps me stay open to others’ goals, to feedback, and to the possibility that I still have more to learn.

This mindset has also helped me accept that not every goal will be achieved in the way or in the timelineI initially imagined. Some goals may need to be revisited later, with a different strategy, in a new environment, or with skills I am still in the process of developing.

Here are a few questions that have helped me pause, reflect, and realign:

• What keeps me committed to this goal? Who is supporting me in this process?

• What signs have I noticed but perhaps ignored along the way?

• What can I learn from moments of disappointment? How might slowing down support that learning?

Picture of a Crane from a recent hike-Symbol of courage and wisdom.